Before the meeting: get clear on the point
You do not need a perfect case. You need to know what you most want to understand or change.
Take a few useful questions, not a case file
“Could you explain what that means in practice for my child?”
“What are we going to try next, and what change are we hoping to see?”
“Who is responsible for that, and by when?”
“When will we review whether it is working?”
During: write down the things that disappear later
- Date, time and everyone present
- Actions agreed
- Who owns each action
- Dates / deadlines / numbers mentioned
- Anything I disagreed with or want clarified
- Next review date
Leave with actions, owners and dates
| Action | Who? | By when? |
|---|---|---|
After: send a short written record
If the meeting does not produce formal minutes, a short follow-up email can confirm what you understood was agreed.
“Thank you for meeting today. My understanding is that we agreed the actions below. Please let me know if I have misunderstood anything. I’ve also noted our next review point so we can look at what has changed.”
Keep it usefulA follow-up is not about “building a case” by default. It is about reducing ambiguity so home and school know what happens next.
Need more than the one-pager?
A meeting is easier when you understand the system around it.
Use Braythorpe’s resources for the practical prep, or Access when the question is specific to your child and school.
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